Four Things a Man Shouldn't Tell a Woman to Do

Age-Old Golden Rules

Men have grown to understand the things that do not augur well for them when relating to women. For instance, a man should never question a woman about her age. If he doesn’t want to lose points on his credibility chart, he should save the age question until she hits that nail right on the head sometime during their frolicking fest. Another caution he should take if he wants to remain in her good books is that he should avoid going into her handbag, purse or pocketbook at all costs. These are traditions that a young male learns as he gets older. However, there are four things that he needs to guard against when negotiating, after they become partners, separate and apart from those above measures.

“…never question a woman about her age.”

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Who Feels Knows

A man should never tell a woman to have an abortion. The subject already has depression rooted at its base in acidic examinations, and therefore to encourage her to take those tests is one way to signing his life away to that woman, if she accedes. Imagine she is three months pregnant, and the only advice she can get from the guy who puts her in that position is to terminate. And he does so without as much as a blink! That’s because he probably isn’t smart enough to know that apart from putting her life on the line, there is that emotional part of it that is left to haunt her to her grave. But this is where it takes the shrewdness of the woman to know that she cannot afford to follow his advice, when there is no guarantee that he’s going to make a life-long lover. Considering the fickle nature of relationship in the world today, it seems unfair that a man should encourage a woman to put her body through that kind of derisive danger, knowing that a split is never totally out of the question.

That might be one reason relationships never seem to end without some kind of sticky situations. A woman who knows that she did the unthinkable such as conducting a few abortions at the request of her hubby, thinking that by going along that route, she stands to better their lives together, might not want to let go so easily when the time comes. As a public bystander, you witness incidents where, for instance, a woman backs up her motor, fatally running over her lover a few times before surrendering to police, to let the law take its course. Your first thought goes in the direction that you must have seen a maniac on the move. However, if you get into the psyche of this killer, you would probably unearth something absolutely horrendous that might have pushed her to those limits.

“…it seems unfair…that kind of derisive danger, knowing that a split is never totally out of the question.”

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Burn Bridges

A man should never tell a woman to abandon her relatives. Anyone who does that is sometimes working with a hidden motive, such as the fact that he might be the controlling type. Relatives can provide a good support group when necessary, all things being equal. If a man tells his woman to avoid her relatives, he must be prepared to be the source of moral support at all times, which is virtually impossible. A man often wants to spend time with his friends, and might not be ready to be the only source that she can call upon in her hour of needs. A woman’s emotional makeup is different from that of a man, and therefore she tends to be a little more dependent on having others, especially some understanding females, to share her feelings. Trust becomes an issue and this is where good relatives become functional. Sometimes a selfish man might take his woman out of the reach of her relatives, just to avoid these contacts. Then, the time comes when he cannot afford to live up to the expectation of being all ears at all times. Frustration sets in, and soon both are heading for the door. But before that happens, there is a swinging bridge to cross. If she had burnt her bridges with her relatives, courtesy of his advice, she might not want to swallow her pride to look back at her people. Hence, she refuses to let go of her male companion without a fight. This kind of pressure cook engagement usually explodes with steams.

“…she tends to be a little more dependent on having others…to share her feelings.”

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Fast Lane

A man should never encourage a woman to make money illegally. In today’s economy, there’s the pimp who puts out his woman to make ready cash by selling her body. Then he claims to be her manager because nobody else can do it like he does. In her emotional attachment to him being the love of her life, she sleeps with men of all shapes and sizes, before bringing it all home to him. He collects and feels like he’s on top of the world with his harem, whom he ascribes different labels, according to their performances. Then, later when he decides to move on to bigger and better things, she might be left with the emotional baggage. But sometimes it doesn’t end there, and participants live the rest of their days in misery.

A man who influences a woman to go on a bank robbery spree is setting himself up for residual retribution. Since he dares to ask her to do something that endangering and denigrating, then she dares him to leave her down the line, even when she might be the antagonist in the relationship. When she makes his wish her command, a lot of unpleasant possibilities are pushed in the forefront. She could lose her life, or she might be forced to put other people’s lives at risk. She could also face a curtailment of her freedom in a penitentiary, where crimes of that nature usually conclude, if she makes it out alive.

“He collects and feels like he’s on top of the world with his harem…”

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Last but Not Least

Lastly, a man shouldn’t tell a woman to make irreversible changes to her body. A woman might have insecurities about her breasts, and a guy might be quick to tell her that she should wear silicone implants. First of all, it’s a pricey procedure and often, the man isn’t the one paying. Secondly, it’s a life risking adventure, and finding a competent surgeon amidst today’s high rate of medical misfortunes, is not the easiest of search. And thirdly, there is the possibility of malfunction, even after a successful surgery, where anything can go wrong at any moment. Discomfort is often reported by women wearing implants, and when a woman puts her body under such lifelong duress, it says a lot about her expectations for the one for whom she does it.

A man might have to decide whether he wants to mortgage his existence to the woman who he chooses to influence. For, if sometimes when a woman spends a few dollars on a man, she has her eyes peeled for a returned reservation of his affection, what could he hope to achieve from putting her through the above impositions?

“…it’s a pricey procedure and often, the man isn’t the one paying.”

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